Million Dollar Consulting® Performance

Umwelt (oom-velt) refers to an organism’s self-life. It’s the opposite of anthropomorphism, in that we try to understand an animal’s personal point of view, rather than assigning it human points of view. Or as John Muir once explained, when asked why something as dreadful as poison ivy was even created, “Perhaps it was made for itself.”

There is an umwelt in our business and social dealings which, if understood, can lead to far greater success. We tend to assign our own traits, preferences, and proclivities to those around us, and this tendency is not very successful. Sometimes called “projection,” we assign positives and negatives to others based on our own experiences and traits.

For example, if I had a hard time learning to ski and you told me you were about to take lessons, I might recommend that you never descend on a black diamond hill, because I still can’t do it and they are not for the average skier. One of my purposes in this remark is to maintain my self-identity, since if you immediately took to black diamonds like an Alpine native I might believe that I’m simply not that adept a skier (which I’m not). The same applies to college courses, food choices, and dating conundrums.

Personal goals are more valuable than common features and benefits

In marketing—and in merely influencing others—it’s better to investigate the umwelt. The buyer, or receiver, or important other may not respond to the same stimuli, motivators, or comforts that you do. The problem with most “features and benefits” sales approaches is that they are immersed in a commodity mindset—what one person finds attractive will surely strike others the same way. That’s blatantly false, which is why we have both Dunkin’ Donuts and Starbuck’s, and PCs and Macs.

You have to put yourself in the other person’s shoes. How are they likely to view the world, your offerings, your suggestions? How can you vary your approach to suit their needs, their values, their expectations, all of which may well be starkly difference from your own and even from the prior buyer?

The finest speakers, consultants, coaches, sales people, teachers, and marketers I’ve seen don’t project; they don’t “anthropomorphize” their interactions with others. Instead, they try to get inside others’ points of view, see the world and the situation through others’ eyes and with others’ personal goals in mind.

The same car will not appeal to an unmarried 25-year-old with a small rent payment, and to a couple with three children, married for ten years, with a substantial mortgage. Vacation alternatives differ, depending upon preferences for travel, ocean, cultural events, bargains, and so forth. I swear by my iPhone while others refuse to buy one, yet we all have the need for wireless communications.

Your dog is hungry, not worried

What is it that your client wants to achieve? Don’t propose a fixed, arbitrary alternative to meet those needs. Propose a more tailored approach that isn’t a commodity. Ironically, you’ll get larger sales from transactions based on meeting need without a fixed methodology than you will from a highly polished, highly rehearsed, and highly irrelevant pitch for a commodity.

To understand others’ points of view, you need to understand their world. Have you asked yourself what it’s like to be the CEO of a community bank in these times? Or what the priorities are for the vice president of nursing in a major hospital? Or what a development director in a non-profit is looking for these days in terms of alternative funding sources? Put yourself in the other person’s shoes, but also look through their eyes, hear through their ears.

This isn’t a bad technique in your personal life, as well. Your kids are not living the life you lived at an equivalent age (not unless you had a cell phone, lap top, and 700 friends on Facebook). Your spouse has a different view of shared experiences, not better or worse, but different. Your dog isn’t licking you because he’s worried about your well being, but because you spilled a part of your lunch and/or haven’t used any breath mints.

If you want to know what the other person is thinking, and you want to gain some traction with a recommendation or proposal, then determine how he or she views the world. They may well be sailing down that black diamond hill, and your best approach is to propose an even better pair of skis.

© Alan Weiss 2009. All rights reserved.

Alan Weiss, Ph.D. is the author of 35 books appearing in 9 languages. He runs his famous Million Dollar Consulting® Colleges all over the world, and has consulted with over 500 organizations, such as the Federal Reserve, Mercedes-Benz, Hewlett-Packard, and J.P. Morgan Chase. He serves on a half-dozen boards, and is the only non-journalist to have ever received the Lifetime Achievement Award from the American Press Institute.. His newest book is Thrive! Stop Wishing Your Life Away. You can reach him at Alan@summitconsulting.com or his blog, http://www.contrarianconsulting.com.